Friday, October 18, 2019


When you have that self-confidence in whatsoever you do, it comes with it the needed boost that redefined your personality.  These tips on self confidence thoughts about tension, fighting for your right and how to stop making excuses will boost your attitude towards life in another dimension.
When you keep making excuses, you defeat your self-worth. Be of the know-how that when you lack self confidence, you might lose your true value to be the best in whatever you do. To be your ultimate self in this ever changing world, you need to constantly fight for what you know is right and stop making unnecessary excuses if you truly want to succeed in life.     

 
When Faced With Tension, Relax!

Most times we come face-to-face with tension and the sweat out of it even as seen in an Air Condition room seems to be noticeable. The sweat that comes along with us when we are under tension is sometimes so pathetic that we ourselves find it difficult to accept that this is us under such a pressure. Sometimes I know, people drive us wild while we go about nagging and killing ourselves over nothing. And when we do that, we made ourselves victims of unnecessary commotion.

At every moment of tension, we should concern our health and also have it at the back of our mind what tension could do to our health at the long run. Actually tension is never a good antidote towards promoting a healthy body and the right mindset that we need to face any challenges that might come our ways. When it has to do with tension, we should know how we conduct ourselves because in that situation, it is an invitation to that which might later regret. 

“Tension will never bring you good but rather a bag load of worries and all it negative effects.”

You know it is undue pressure that will create undue tension and when that comes visible, you are bounce not to be yourself again. And the moment you are not yourself, sincerely, you can do that which later on, you might not accept that this actually comes from you. Learn to control the ways you react to any situation. When you can comport yourself without doubt, then, you can manage any circumstances without any stress.  

Notice when you are under tension, you are bound to make terrible mistakes that sometimes can cost you a fortune and ruined your reputation. You should not just let tension ruined your reputation before you do something about it. If you seek to overcome tension, then learn to relax yourself when you are faced with undue pressure. Actually you should smile when it seems like the whole world is on top of you. Another way to overcome tension when it arises is to relax your mind. Your mind is what controls your body and eventually controls your life. Sincerely, if you allowed your mindset to be tossed around with unnecessary tension; you may really not be able to focus your mind on that which will do yourself good.

Again, I say please, smile to yourself. Just a little smile when you are under pressure; that is all it would take to relax the mind and drive away undue tension that might seek to make a victim out of your life. If sincerely you still want to overcome tension apart from the others mentioned, then learn to control some unnecessary attitude problems that might seems to put you on some unnecessary tension, this for sure will help you build the right mindset that will help to overcome tension at any given time.

 
Fight For What You Know Is Right

Life is all about a fight. The right fight I mean. If you feel I am lying, then ask yourself, if any of the achievement you have at the moment did come while you were deep asleep. A fight for what you desired symbolizes that you are ready to take that which is your heart desire. When I say fight, I mean standing up and being ready to take that which is your rightful position.

Your rightful position is your propelling force that will make you seek to achieve your dream. And when you give in to laziness, things will actually pass you by. Laziness is never a good way to fight for that which is your rightful position. It is what will bring about procrastination and this is what will cause a delay in making actualize your desire purpose in life.     

“Whatever you need, you have to go fight for it. No success comes on a platter of gold.”

It saddens my heart when I see people sit back and wait for others to make a success of their lives and all they do is come around and want to claim ownership like they were the ones who understood and felt your pains on your pathway to success. To those who want to feel another man’s success, swallow this hook-line-and-sinker. When you have a vision and your instinct keep directing you to that path, then go for it and never you allow any person’s opinion deny you of your right to make your dream a success.

People’s opinion of you will only have an effect on you if you allowed them form a part of your reasoning process. In as much as you listen to others opinion of you; kindly do not let them defines the real person in you. You are the one who knows your ability and the only one who will bear your vision, burden and the conception of your dream to it actualization. The moment you allow other people’s opinion defines your person; then for sure you are about to defeat your self-worth and you know what this might do to your destiny.

The people you know that are successful actually are people who stood still in spite of all odds against them. They fought their way to the top and did never allow anything that could distract their vision to die inside of them. They were zealous for that which they believe is the right thing to do. Sincerely they put in a good fight that made them war against that which are the diminishing factors towards their process in life. These and many more are what the people you feel are successful did and in so doing, found success.


Stop Making Excuses

I keep preaching this term but never put it into practice, but an event that occurred in the office sometimes ago, reaffirms my thought on this.

3.15p.m. on a hot afternoon, it started like a movie. I was asked to take salary payment to the bank in town which was very far from where the office was located.  I made an excuse that it was not possible considering the time, that banks closed their door to customers by 4.00p.m. Naturally, this was not possible considering the traffic on the road.

Hey! After making my excuses, my Boss said, Go! That was all I heard, typical of him, no excuses. Anyhow, I moved with the driver and we made it at exactly the time. By the time I came back, he gave to me some valuable lessons of life. Never make excuses and give a thousand reasons why it can’t be done. Always, first give a try when that is not possible, communicate and try the next day. Now I know. Maybe I should have known better that a winner’s mindset never accommodate excuses.

“Excuses are the bedrock on which failure lies.”

If you want to remain successful, never ever believe that excuses exist. Actually like people would say that excuses are for losers. People who do not want to take responsibility for anything actually find their lifeline in making unnecessary excuses for every little thing they encountered. Making excuses will do you no good when it has to do with what will benefit yourself and others. And the more you make excuses; people will never see nor take you as a serious person. This for sure will make others look at you the other way round; sincerely with a negative mindset.  

There is need for you to take action at all time and this requires that you take no for an excuse. Do not give people the notion to doubt your ability. It is when you keep making excuses for every little thing that people will begin to doubt your professionalism. You need to get the job done and take the glory for it. That is the pride that defines you as one that is serious for that which you do. Giving excuses will never allow you to make a meaning out of anything. In a work place, those who make excuses might never find any promotion from their superior.

When you give excuses, it will never add up to the growth of anything but rather will diminish the force of change. We make progress when we get the job done and not when we give excuses. If you must succeed in life, do not give excuses for every little things but rather see to it that you give a try first and where it is not possible, try again. It is in giving a try that you will defeat the enemy called excuse.  

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