These positive fascinating and motivational advice for friends about life are meaningful inspirational messages that will brighten and inspire your friends to be their best no matter the challenges they encountered.
There are friends in your life that needs to be inspired. For them, they deserve these inspirational quotes about life and happiness to motivate them along the way to achieve their destiny.
How To Overcome The Enemy That Is You
There is no need trying to search for the number one enemy of man that seems to hold us down. If you keep searching for the other enemy, then first look at the mirror and the image you see is the first culprit that should be term an enemy. The greatest enemy is the enemy of oneself. You can walk away from external enemies, but can you walk away from yourself? The enemy we have but seem not to recognize sometimes is our self.
A time we blame others for our misfortune but seem not to ascertain that we are a contributory factor to our failure for the things we failed to do right when it matters. The enemy of failure looms so real within our self but for us to overcome such, we need to take action and do everything possible to eliminate it. The action we take is what defines how we will overcome the enemy that is us. Living a life of purpose, is what will give us the edge to strive always in order to eliminate this enemy call average.
We shouldn’t give in to lazy thoughts that make us feel that our problem is the handiwork of others when we fail to do that which should move us to the next level. I know sometimes that our environment constraint us to some certain height in expressing ourselves to meet up with that which will bring about our breakthrough. But be it as it may, it is still left for us to fight the enemy called average so as for us to break loose and achieve our given purpose in life.
“Never you limit yourself or talk down on yourself. If you see nothing good in yourself, others will also not see anything good in you.”
Actually our destiny is guided by what we keep saying to ourselves on daily a basis. When all we confess are negative words, then how do we expect positive things to influence our life and ways of reasoning? To kill the enemy within you, always believe in yourself. It is your believe system that will drive the forces of change around you. And not when you keep dwelling and feeling that others are the problem that is you. Even if you feel that others are the problem that is you, if you do nothing about it, then that problem will still be there. You need knowledge to understand that the major problem of you no getting to where you are at the position you are at the moment might be that of your own making. This might be as a result of you failing to do that which should have been done in time past.
When you take responsibility for your action, then you will brave up to make amend and get things done the right way. If you want to find solution to that which is your undoing, than blame no one for your misfortune. You are the architect of your destiny and this you can actualize when you stop blaming others for your misfortune but rather would take the needed action to make things right so as to actualize your destiny.
Stop Sitting On The Fence
The fence is never a convenient place for you to sit and make a living out of life. Those who find the fence as their sitting place of habour will never be taken seriously by anyone who has a destiny in life to fulfill. Sitting on the fence, makes you a spectator rather than a player in the field of life. If you have sat on the fence for too long, take my advice, stop sitting on the fence. Get off it, and go do something meaningful with your life.
“Those who sit on the fence are like passersby who window-shop and have a story for every happening around town without owing anything to justify themselves as game changers.”
The people who sit on the fence are like the people who write other people’s history book but owe no chapter of theirs. They are like `ticketers` at the airport who knew all the destination routes, flight time and airlines but have never traveled to any of the destination. To be relevant in life, then stop sitting on the fence. When you do such, you lost time and have no mind to take action that can bring about results. Just don’t be a spectator who only watches a match but be a player on the pitch of life who made things happens. When you stop guessing and takes action, you will help redefined yourself and do the impossible which can only happen when you stop sitting on the fence by just watching.
“If you desire a life that wins at all time, then you shouldn’t make the fence have a sitting space for you.”
Life’s success stories are only made possible when you take action. So in daring the impossible, you need to take action and go after that which is giving you sleepless night. Action is needed to overcome everything that seems to hold your breakthrough down. It is not for us to see our downward state of life and seems to do nothing about it. This requires that we give a good fight to win over that which will seem to bring us down. Most a times we come across challenges in this, it is not for us to do nothing about it. The moment you become silent over that which is confronting you without doing anything in trying to overcome it, you will always have it there around you. If you do nothing about your situation, then expect that nobody will do anything about it for you.
When anyone finds you always at a particular spot without doing anything, such a person will not never want to take you seriously. In such occasion, you will be seen as a lazy person that does not want to anything meaningful with your life. Life actual success requires that you go do something for yourself and not try to wait for anyone. Remember that time is of essence and if you can’t move with the moving time, then have no one but yourself to blame at the long run. Whenever that will bring a legitimate income instead of waiting for the big break, you should take a go at it. Remember it is in starting small that you will grow big. Start something and do not make your mind an idle workshop to be used for unproductive things because the moment you made such, you will have other things that will cross your mind to do wrong which will never bring to you the right way to make a living in life. If success is all that you want out of life, then all you need do is to stop sitting on the fence and find something meaning to do with your life. If you desire a change, then take the courage to make things work not just for you but for others that shall benefit from the right step you took.
Learn To Trust Your Instincts
Your instinct has a lot to do in guiding your life out of danger and many trouble waters. If you are a man that is in tune with your instinct, hardly would you find yourself in any danger zone. Whatsoever that is about happening to us, our body instinct first will communicate such to us but it our understanding of that instinct that will make us avoid such. There is a body language that our spirit man releases each time we are getting into any danger zone. And it is our awareness of this that would guide us not to fail into such temptation. If there is one thing we should not be in contention with, it is our body instinct for this is a guide and that which would always direct us away from evil.
“Your body instinct is a guide that draws you towards accomplishing your destiny.”
In every steps of life you desire to take, your body instinct stands a better chance as a guide that would direct you if you can listen to it. Everyone has it ways how it would manifest to them. If you study yourself repeatedly, you will be able to hear the warming signal at anytime it wants to arise before it is too late. When your mind, spirit and body resist a thing and at times turned weak on a journey you are about to embark or on a new business deal you are about to enter, hold back and withdraw your steps at that moment. Sincerely, this is a way that communication is sent to you that all might not be well. Be wise! And do not ignore your body instinct which will always and repeatedly inform your mind that all as good as it might sound is not well.
People who always listen to their body instinct will always be ahead of others before any danger sets in. Learn to trust your instinct no matter how it might sound at every moment. Your instinct has a role to play in determining the direction of your destiny. If you ignore it many a times, you may find yourself going the wrong direction and might never in such situation be made fulfilled in the actualization of your purpose in life. Trust your instinct to trust your life. When you trust your instinct, you would ever be in control of your life.